“Out of deep, unconscious love, the child often chooses to carry the unlived life or un-felt grief of the mother.”Systemic Healing Principle

Healing your relationship with your Mother

The Unresolved Ache

Like many of us, I carried an unseen burden in my heart: the unresolved pain within my relationship with my mother. I longed to feel seen and truly heard, but even after years of conventional therapy, the tender knot inside me remained.

My Systemic Awakening

My first 1-on-1 Family Constellation session was the turning point. As tears flowed, a profound shift occurred. I saw my mother not through the eyes of a hurting child, but with deep compassion for the story, the struggles, and the pain she carried long before I existed. In that space, something softened in my heart for the very first time.

Guiding Your Healing

Our relationship is now gentler, built on a foundation of clarity and understanding I never thought possible. The ache I carried for so long has eased, replaced by the profound gratitude of knowing her love. This healing inspired me to become a Family Constellation facilitator.

I am here to offer you that same depth, clarity, and softening of the heart that helped me to soften my heart and fully take my Mother’s love in.

“When we take our mother, just as she is, we say yes to life.”Bert Hellinger

Healing my connection with my Mom